Dark was the Night

How to tie someone up sexually

Women have many fantasies. Some of them involve them being completely dominated. This can be small and simple from being told what to do, to full degradation such as being pissed on having shit smothered over their skin before being fucked.

Some of them like to be hurt, sometimes this is simple use of pain as pleasure – using the hot wax of candles is a classic example of how to do this without permanently damaging the person. For some women this isn’t enough however, and only real blood and breaking of the flesh will suffice.
Some of them involve being in charge and being the dominatrix. Being the domme is all important to them, and this will go from deciding what happens right through to whips, chains and putting their men into cages.

Something that is more common that you think however is being tied up. This is fantasy shared by both men and women – though it is girls who tend to prefer being the ones tied up. Being completely dominated and then ravished by a man is every girls dream on some level, and the restraint of real bonds only serves to escalate what can happen verbally on a day to day basis.
So things to bear in mind:

• It is not only about the actual bonds, if you don’t back it up with strength, it won’t be a turn on.
• As well as rope, consider scarves or something softer if this is your first time. It will hold the person down just as strongly.
• Verbalise it. Use words to reinforce their “helplessness”
• Have a safe word. If it gets out of hand you might stop prematurely when they are actually enjoying themselves, so the safe word will not stop you – but instead allow you to go much further than you otherwise would.

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Something old..something new…

Being in love is a wonderful feeling, knowing that you have someone in your life that cares about you for all of your faults and idiosyncrasies gives many people a content feeling. While love in a relationship is important, equally important is the type of sex that a couple has. When it comes to sex and love, for a lot of people it conjures up the image of romantic candle lit love making, but seldom do people think about the down and dirty business of a good fuck. It is entirely possible to have both a wonderful loving relationship as well as some raunchy sex in the bedroom.
In the beginning of my relationship it was certainly all about the sex, getting to know each other and putting on the “dating face”. However, being together for a long time has left a little to be desired when it comes to our sex life. My wife and I have always been very open minded people, so when things began to slide in the boudoir we formulated a plan to get back on track with what had been a very healthy sex life. When our issues began we tried the more traditional tactics like doing some role playing and using new types of toys, and while it worked for a while we still felt that something was missing.
My wife surprised me by suggesting that we consider a ménage a trios, after all is was something neither of us had done before. After some discussion between us my wife called a London Escort Agency to arrange for an escort. Our escort came directly to our home, (as my wife was more comfortable here than at a hotel) and after a drink, some get to know you chit chat we got down to business. It was the most amazing experience that either of us (my wife and I) had ever had. While the sex that was had with our escort was great, it paled in comparison to what happened after she left.
Having a threesome has changed everything between my wife and me for the better. We are still madly in love and have discovered things about each other that we never would have known. I’m grateful that my wife made the suggestion and that we followed through. So, if you are looking for a new twist in your sex life, trying a threesome just might do the trick.

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When 3 is not a crowd……

As a relationship ages many times so does the ability to come up with new and exciting ways to keep the passion alive. For couples that are looking to reignite the flame, but are tired of store bought toys, gadgets and role playing get ups than maybe it is time to look at other ways to breathe the life back into your sex life.
For many couples that need something more, why not consider finding a fuck buddy to help spice things up in the bedroom? Realistically, a FB is nothing more than another tool that can be used to help make your sex life exciting again. However, it is not as simple as just picking out a dildo from a porn shop shelf. You and your partner need to talk about what your expectations are for your FB. Are you looking for a one night stand fuck buddy or more of a long term type? A long term FB is a good option only after your initial experience, so that you know if it is something that you and your partner enjoy, but you should only choose someone that you would possibly want to be with again just in case you are inclined to do it on a more regular basis. Another thing to consider when looking for a FB is gender, do you and your significant other want a male fuck buddy or is another female more your style? It seems the trend in the early on of threesomes, that another woman is the preference. Maybe it is because there is not as much issue with dominance between women, but whatever the case you should choose based on a mutually agreed preference. The final and most important thing to discuss when contemplating a FB in your bedroom is ground rules. You and your partner as well as the intended fuck buddy should discuss what is expected of each person and what the rules are in AND out of the bedroom.
Once you have made your choice, had the necessary discussions, and prepared yourselves, than having that third person in your bed can be one of the best experiences of your lives.

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Dirty sex for beginners

It is quite nice to be in love. However being in love and making love doesn’t necessarily mean that you shouldn’t experiment with your sex life. At first, most couples usually practise more traditional, tender sex. This is explained by the fact that they are just in the beginning of their relationship and they are still getting used to each other. Making love is all about connecting on a higher level. However, each one of us is special and unique and it takes quite a lot of time for this connection to be made. Nevertheless, with time your relationship grows stronger, just like your sex life. But still, strangely enough, naughty or dirty sex is not something that we all like. So what are you supposed to do in order to find out if your fuck buddy is comfortable with such experiments? Well the best thing to do is to start with something rather casual. A good idea is to slap your partner gently and watch for his/her reaction. If you get negative feedback forget about it. Don’t try to push your partner too hard as this may ruin your relationship. If, however your lover reacts positively to the slapping, this is a sign that you can continue with the dirty games and you can even use two lather slappers for more intense pleasure. It should all happen very naturally. One thing will lead to another and soon you will establish a clear ground rules what you like and what you don’t.

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